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Mr Bolt posted a condolence
Monday, October 29, 2012
To the family of Leila Bordcosh: Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. Death affects everyone on the face of this earth, yet when it touches us personally, few seek the comfort they search for. The unscriptual doctrines that are taught concerning death do not leave those grieving with comfort or a hope, but they do leave many with unanswered questions. The response that "God works in mysterious ways", does not satisfy the spiritual needs of those who are grieving (Matthew 5:3). However, many have found comfort in the pages of God's word the Bible (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4). In God's word we find the promise that we can be reunited with our loved ones (John 5:28, 29, Acts 24:15). The Bible tells us where this happy reunion will take place (Psalm 37: 11, 29, Matthew 5:5). We are told why we die (Genesis 3:17-19, Romans 5:12), and that the God of the Bible will end death forever (1 Corinthians 15:26, Revelation 21:3, 4). In the model prayer, also called the lord's prayer, readers are taught to pray for God's Kingdom (Matthew 6:10). Learning the truth about the God of the Bible (Psalm 83:18, Revelation 4:11), God's Kingdom (Daniel 2:44), and the state of those who have died (Ecclesiastes 9:5), is the start to finding true comfort concerning loved ones who are sleeping in death, as well as satisfying answers to many other questions (John 8:32, John 11:11).
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RIMA BORDCOSH posted a condolence
Friday, September 21, 2012
Welcome to Leila's Home to celebrate her life and memory. Leila always loved to welcome people in New York and invite them. She was an excellent chef and loved food though she was thin, delicate and did not eat much. Many of her invitees used to ask who is this "excellent Chef ?". My answer was always: "Leila is the chef and I am the assistant chef". So welcome and many thanks for coming to celebrate Leila's Life and memory.
Leila was very elegant. And she had very good taste for clothes and accessories. She always chose stylish, elegant and beautiful outfits that attracted the attention of all those around her. Whatever she wore suited her. But these are not her attributes.
She was a Hero and surely she was my hero.
My hero, my sister Leila, had the heroic qualities. She was unselfish. Her unselfish love was shown to those she knew and cared for, especially to me. She is a caring person. She cared for her nieces and nephew, her relatives, friends and colleagues. Leila was kind. She was a model for kindness, thoughtfulness, constant caring and generosity toward just and charitable causes. Leila was always super courageous. Through all my years I envied Leila for her courage and frankness and I always wanted to be like her.
In 1958 during the civil war in Lebanon, my mother was closing the shutters and there she was hit by a bullet. My mother fell on the floor and she was bleeding. Leila in a split of a second, called the Ambulance, my father at work, and the fighting factions, relayed the incident and asked them to stop fighting during the ambulance passage to the hospital. And they did; and my mother reached the hospital safely. Thanks to the courageous daughter Leila.
Again during that period, fighters wanted to rob the house .Leila decided that she can salvage the situation. And we decided to go to the house which was abandoned temporarily because of fighting and persuade them not to occupy it. She did not want my father to go with us, because she wanted to protect him from any ill.. So Leila and I ventured to accomplish the mission. In the middle of the road, I started to collapse and vomit. Leila encouraged me, took my hand and we proceeded. We reached home. Leila negotiated with the fighters and she convinced them not to occupy the house. Yes Leila remained a tough negotiator all her life and this quality helped her to progress in her career. Through her tough negotiations she managed to win over many contracts in the insurance business in the Arab countries.
Leila was a forgiving person. . She confronted openly, honestly, spoke courageously and remained friendly with all those who disagreed with her. I many times questioned her why she should remain as such with those who erred to her. She always replied: "Forgive, forgive and forgive but you do not forget. Forgiving is the salt of the earth". Leila had such a big heart. I will surely miss you my beloved sister.
Leila was a witty and smart person. I always wondered how she could find swift and on the spot answers to every enigma and situation she faced. She was an excellent problem solver at home, in the r family, among her colleagues and to all
those around her..
Leila had a sense of humor
Leila had a sharp and analytical mind.
If I want to cover Leila's life it will take hours and I may write a book about her .
But my dear sister, being your sister was the best that happened to me in my life. You shaped my personality, you were a source of security to me ; you enhanced my self confidence.. You made be a happier and better person. you gave me happiness all my life .I will always love you and remember you. I am sure you are now in a better place. God have mercy on you. My mate soul Leila
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July 15- Roula Bordcosh posted a condolence
Friday, September 21, 2012
One Thousand and one nights
Alf Leila ....wa Leila.
One Thousand Leilas and one Leila.
Unique
Ground breaker
Humble sharp shaker
Stern yet forgiving
Like orphans we weep for you.
A one in a thousand Leilas
A one in a million Palestinians
A one in a billion women.
Only one Leila Costandi Bordcosh
She leaves us now ...
missing her
Idolizing her
This quintessential single career lady
Managed to fill her World with the love of
Friends, brothers, and sisters
And the children of each of her beloved people
One thousand and one nights you will be mourned
One thousand times you will be remembered and
mentioned on one thousand lips.
Arji3ee ya alf layla ghaimat al 3itri
Fal hawa yarwi ghaleela min nada al fajr
Inna ashwaaqi' taweela aqsarat 30mri
Wa 7akayaki khameela min mada'dahri
Arji3i ya alf laila ya alf laila ya alfa laila
Ghaimat al'3itri.
Come back one thousand nights, cloud of perfume.
Rest in eternal peace our one in a thousand Leila, Roula Elias Bordcosh
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Lana Bordcosh posted a condolence
Friday, September 21, 2012
When I was young, I was never lacking for affection and love especially not from my aunts. People say I was spoiled beyond what my brother and sister experienced because I was the first born but I'd like to think I was the most "mahdoumi" point is, ever since I can remember,Leila was always a big part of my life and an encouraging player in all my major milestones.... There concerted effort to inquire about my life ....from myday to day events to mylong term ~reams. were countless times where she would lend an ear or help guide my thoughts, or ta: Into.her many id with an opportunity She was always there ...literally and figuratively. There resources to proVI e me . I . . . was no question Samer, Lulwa, and I were loved, and always made a Priority In her eyes. When you are young, you don't have the cognition to reflect on how you feel about those people who are close to you. Things are much simpler. If you are as lucky as I was, you enjoy the gifts they shower you with, and the places they take you, and the time they spend with you ...all of which are v~r: fond memories I have with Leila. But it was in my adult life, after being exposed to many personalities, and many experiences that I realized that my aunt Leila was a person to be proud of. A woman, and Palestinian woman at that, that not only worked in a male dominated field, but overcame many obstacles to become accomplished and respected in that field. As long as I can remember, Leila stood by her convictions and supported the causes she believed in. She was an independent, strong willed, knowledgeable woman who knew what she wanted. I never saw her break her word, nor did I ever see her compromise her ethics to avoid conflict or for personal gain She never sugar coated things, which meant you always knew what you were going to get. In ways such as these, she was an inspiration Leila had many facets to her. ..in addition she waswelcoming and hospitable host to me and any close friends I would bring on my visits to New York. She would always make sphagetti with her famous meat sauce when I came .....a personal favorite! And before New York, I remember swinging on the veranda swing of Leila's Greece home on a breezy summer day ...Being in Athens at Leila's encompass some of my most vivid childhood memories. And she was among the most generous people I knew which was definitely demonstrated on birthdays, but more often than not, for no occasion at all. If I said liked her boots, she would say as she took them off to hand me, "you like them? Here please take them!" I have many fond memories of Leila ....one that comes to mind is when she took me on a trip to Paris after my high school graduation. She treated me to dinner in a fancy French restaurant. Leila sat quietly while I explained to the waiter that I didn't want any of the heavy sauces that came with the filet mignon. And as the waiter looked at me "nose up" in disapproval "she said to him ....could you please prepare it the way she asks? I know the dish isn't normally made that way but, could you please make an exception?" Later that evening, I began having serious stomach cramps. Leila, in an attempt to alleviate my pain, suggested I lay on my back with my legs up over my head torelease some gas for relief ....but nothing came out. I then came up with what I thought was a urika moment ...in order to digest the food and get it out of my system as soon as possible, I needed to exercise. After much hounding, Leila,( who adamantly insisted that I not go alone,) and I walked the streets of Paris late at
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Lulwa Bordcosh posted a condolence
Friday, September 21, 2012
15 July Celebrating Leila's Life Leila’s personality is so bold and colorful that if artists were to try to capture it on a canvas they would never dare to pick up a pastel or watercolor for such mediums are too subtle. Nor would they use a brush, for such strokes are too broad with too much room for interpretation to capture someone as direct and straightforward as she. A clever artist would use the brightest of heavy and true industrial paint and splatter it on the canvas in the most abrupt and honest way with a long whip of designer leather that has a mind of its own. And in the world's greatest irony, Leila would come to the museum, in which this personification of her hangs on display, and say without a second thought, "this artist is an idiot." And also without a second thought, what you might not understand is that a bold colorful person like Leila gives color to others around her, me included. Now, maybe she only rubs off in pastels or watercolors, but the effect is noteworthy nonetheless. From Leila I have learned great pride. I have pride for my decisions (yeah sometimes they aren’t the best but I see them through and that takes guts) From Leila I have learned to fight for the weak when the weak are unable to fight for themselves. And although whom I chose to defend constantly changes it is the ideal that I am strong enough to fend for myself and those that need fending that she has instilled in me. She has taught me conviction. True, life lasting conviction. She has taught me what it means to care for something so much that one’s blood starts to boil in anger for that she believes with all of her being. I will miss my aunt Leila with all my heart. I will miss the way the house would always smell of chicken curry and spheha whenever I would arrive, two dishes Leila always made just for me. I will miss the way she always insisted on getting a real Christmas tree because she knew I preferred it over the fake ones, even though it was much more trouble. I will miss the many stories she would tell about my mischievous father and how, because she was the eldest, it was upon her to discipline him. I will miss her one-liners, that although came out of nowhere, were hilarious for hours after the fact. I will miss her stories about Greece, and how while she would tell them I would romanticize about her life there, picturing something glamorous and exotic. I will miss the way she used to call me “lulu,� odd as it may be considering I hate whenever anyone else calls me by that. I will miss her so much, and although I find comfort in these memories, I find more comfort in knowing that she has had an influential part in shaping the person I am. And for this I am ever greatful and proud.
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Rima Bordcosh, Fortieth Day for Leila posted a condolence
Friday, September 21, 2012
LEILA FORTIETH MEMORIAL SERVICE AUGUST 26, 2012 Thank you for coming to the memorial service at the Church and welcome for this gathering for my very dear sister and soul mate Leila. Leila is watching us from above and she is resting in peace on the wings of the everlasting life where there is no pain, no suffering and no affliction. Leila was a loving and a caring person and especially to her family, relatives and friends. In them she found that her needs were answered; She was generous and always giving of herself and thus she truly gave; Leila believed in life and the bounty of life and always gave with joy and that joy was always her reward; Leila was truly a hard working Arab woman executive, highly successful and excellent negotiator and reached the highest echelon in her profession and excelled in an environment dominated by men; Leila was nominated in 1994 as a women achiever by the American Academy of women Achievers; Leila was always on the side of justice , and specially regarding the Palestinian Cause. She also served her cause through her profession. She was The Insurance Commissioner of Palestine in 2000-20001. Leila had a witty and sharp sense of humor. Some of you may remember the incident when Leila and I went to Rome to visit the Vatican. We stood in the line to enter. Leila was not allowed to enter because she was sleeveless. Leila told me “you enter and I will follow� I kept thinking how is she going to enter with her sleeveless top. So I entered alone, encountered a tour with a guide explaining the wonders of the Vatican. I was so taken and I forgot all about Leila, until that moment when I saw a person that resembles Leila. I gazed and yes I found out that Leila had sleeves and we both burst in laughter when we saw how Leila salvaged the situation through tissues that she found in her purse and they were the dangling sleeves that allowed her to enter the Vatican. Smart Leila Leila lived a happy and meaningful life. She had a lot of integrity and thank God had a lot of happiness and personal and business successes. It is very difficult to live without Leila. I loved her dearly Thank you again for coming and enjoy your lunch
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Eileen posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Dear Rima: Thanks for your note. I appreciate your sentiments. What lovely memories of Leila! As requested, I am forwarding my e-mail address which is: etfeileen@aol.com. Let's keep in touch,Love, Eileen
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Hassan Hammami posted a condolence
Monday, August 6, 2012
Dear Rima, Lana, Samer and Lulwa:
I shall never forget your lovely sister. We met through the internet several years ago, and we (my daughter Rema Hammami and I ) visited you two in New York three summers ago with the Rashid Khalidis, when I learned how connected we all were; Mrs Khalidi was related to my very good friend and old classmate Bandali al Issa, whom I had visited every time I was in Jerusalem recently until he passed away. You, Rima, and your sister Leila were such wonderful Hostesses, in the best spirit of Yafa's children now allover the world. Leila and I used to have long telephone conversations during which I learned a lot from her and hopefully was able to share some of my knowledge in return.
She's with us as long as we live. If I'm sorry for anything, it is that I was unable to attend her funeral. Please deel that my heart goes out to you all.
Hasan Hammami
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Ayoub Jaraicie posted a condolence
Friday, August 3, 2012
It is only yesterday a young woman standing at the door of her office scanning me with her curious eyes wondering and assessing my true caliber. Liela Bordcosh she was. Liela the young woman I knew back in the summer of 1972 became one of my closest friends and more dear to me than many of my family members, my wife and kids adored her. Over the years we shared many moments discussing work, family and other topics very dear to our hearts. She assisted me in aiding those who are badly in need of help, and occasionally standing up for those who had ill intentions to others. The MAN in Liela is a quality rarely found among the best of men,but in essence she was a true woman. her honesty is chilling, her courage is fierce full, her loyalty is humbling, her love is overwhelming. Liela is a fierce friend, she will be missed by everyone who loved her and she will live in my heart until we meet again. Rest in peace my friend your memory will live for ever.
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Richard Titley posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
'Rima Bordcosh'
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Rima!! I was so sorry to hear of Leila's death. We worked together when she was at ACE and fought together on the ARAMCO account.!!!
Weshall miss her Please pass on my deepest sympathies toyour family Yours with love Richard
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Very Dear Rima,
I am very saddened and shocked to learn about your beloved sister's passing away.
I will always remember Leila as a very special person. Her ladyship and generosity with me is unforgettable . I stayed with her at Chelsea Cloisters when I went to apply for post graduate studies. She turned the whole event into a memorable lovely one full of fun and joy.
We will always remember our visit to both of you in New York back in 1995.
I do hope Yafa will be liberated in our lifetime to visit your old home and she will be happy.
May she rest in peace and may you get all the patience and endurance to withstand the pain of her absence.
In empathy ,
Love,
Hasna
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Nelly Minassian posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Dearest Rima,
I have been thinking of you and of course Leila . We are so saddened to have lost another dear cousin.
I have reviewed Gannon's site and want to congratulate you and the nephew & nieces for putting it all together. It is just fantastic, great photos never seen before & which I truly enjoyed. I wish we were all gathered in your living room or on a beach looking at the albums, giggling and laughing and sharing stories of our tumultuous past from Jaffa to the US!
Now, life is tougher for you , but please think of yourself and your health as you need to make an effort and be courageous to overcome this big trauma. You will never forget Leila and Louli, but who knows our souls might meet again ???? Please try to keep in touch with the family and not be isolated. It will not help. We are here and can share our thoughts and feelings and try to get together occasionally.
I am sorry I could not join you on Sunday for the memorial service. You were on my mind.
Tell Louli's kids I am booking them for another website before I pass . I have to start thinking about it and the photos..
Love you.
Nelly
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Dear Rima and family,
I was so sad to hear that Leila has left us. I will always have fond memories of the times we spent with her in Athens. She was a lovely person and fun to be with- I will remember her sense of humor, her kindness and her generosity.
I was not aware that she was in hospital these past months and was struggling. When mom passed away last year, I was comforted knowing that she was no longer suffering and that she was in a better place- I know the same is true for Leila.
You and your family are in my thoughts. Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathy.
Saba Malak
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Hasna Mikdashi posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Very Dear Rima, I am very saddened and shocked to learn about your beloved sister's passing away. I will always remember Leila as a very special person. Her ladyship and generosity with me is unforgettable . I stayed with her at Chelsea Cloisters when I went to apply for post graduate studies. She turned the whole event into a memorable lovely one full of fun and joy. We will always remember our visit to both of you in New York back in 1995. I do hope Yafa will be liberated in our lifetime to visit your old home and she will be happy. May she rest in peace and may you get all the patience and endurance to withstand the pain of her absence. In empathy , Love, Hasna
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Rima posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Dear Family and Friends, It is with hearts full of sorrow, agony, pain and sadness that Rima, Lana, Samer and Lulwa announce: the untimely passing of our beloved Sister and Aunt Leila. Through our memory, Leila will forever remain the loving Sister and devoted Aunt we've always known. Leila's integrity, hard work, generosity, intelligence, courage and sense of humour will remain apparent, and will continue to be a torch; a beacon of light to guide us through our lives. To the extended family, Leila was a confidante; like a superb friend. To her friends she was loyal, supportive, and trustworthy...and towards the world...she contributed an unmatched sense of justice, as she demonstrated her passion to the Palestinian cause. She consistently stood by her convictions with clarity, pride, and confidence - for which we love her even more. Leila excelled at her career in the Insurance Industry as the first female executive in her field to service the Arab countries. Unfortunately, Leila fractured her pelvis on February 11, 2012. Since then, she has been in and out of the hospital and rehabilitation centers. Over the last few months, she struggled to be patient, demonstrating inspiring courage. She was an enigma to all those who treated her, amazed by her courage, willingness to improve and intimate knowledge of her illness and treatment options. We stood by, with great difficulty, as Leila faced one hurdle after another. Despite her valiant progress, a bacterial infection overcame, and proved too much for our loving fighter. We feel so blessed to have all of your support through this sad time. Thank you all for all the love you have spread. We respectfully ask for your understanding that our family wishes to have a private service; however, a celebration of Leila's life will be held on Sunday, July 15th. The time an location will be announced shortly. You can also look for further details at Leila's memorial site at http://www.gannonfuneralhome.com/. My Dear Sister, I will keep learning from and loving you until the day when we meet again. At the end, as Leila came to terms with her reality, she told her doctor, "I will try to live for the sake of my sister." Then the pain took over and she left us. Her departure broke our hearts. With loving memory, to my beloved sister Leila, Your Soul Mate, Rima To those who would like to Honor the memory of Leila, please visit her memorial website at: http://www.gannonfuneralhome.com/, and share your memories on our message board. There you can also follow the link to donate to ANERA (The American Near East Refugee Aid). Other ways to donate include: check made out to ANERA sent to the following Address: ANERA, 1111 fourteenth street, NW , no.400, Washington D.C. 2005 and mentioning in Memory of Leila Bordcosh, or by going to the ANERA website, http://www.anera.org/ and clicking on DONATE and In Memory of Leila Bordcosh, or by or calling ANERA at (202) 266-9700. Dear Family and Friends, It is with hearts full of sorrow, agony, pain and sadness that Rima, Lana, Samer and Lulwa announce: the untimely passing of our beloved Sister and Aunt Leila. Through our memory, Leila will forever remain the loving Sister and devoted Aunt we've always known. Leila's integrity, hard work, generosity, intelligence, courage and sense of humour will remain apparent, and will continue to be a torch; a beacon of light to guide us through our lives. To the extended family, Leila was a confidante; like a superb friend. To her friends she was loyal, supportive, and trustworthy...and towards the world...she contributed an unmatched sense of justice, as she demonstrated her passion to the Palestinian cause. She consistently stood by her convictions with clarity, pride, and confidence - for which we love her even more. Leila excelled at her career in the Insurance Industry as the first female executive in her field to service the Arab countries. Unfortunately, Leila fractured her pelvis on February 11, 2012. Since then, she has been in and out of the hospital and rehabilitation centers. Over the last few months, she struggled to be patient, demonstrating inspiring courage. She was an enigma to all those who treated her, amazed by her courage, willingness to improve and intimate knowledge of her illness and treatment options. We stood by, with great difficulty, as Leila faced one hurdle after another. Despite her valiant progress, a bacterial infection overcame, and proved too much for our loving fighter. We feel so blessed to have all of your support through this sad time. Thank you all for all the love you have spread. We respectfully ask for your understanding that our family wishes to have a private service; however, a celebration of Leila's life will be held on Sunday, July 15th. The time an location will be announced shortly. You can also look for further details at Leila's memorial site at http://www.gannonfuneralhome.com/. My Dear Sister, I will keep learning from and loving you until the day when we meet again. At the end, as Leila came to terms with her reality, she told her doctor, "I will try to live for the sake of my sister." Then the pain took over and she left us. Her departure broke our hearts. With loving memory, to my beloved sister Leila, Your Soul Mate, Rima To those who would like to Honor the memory of Leila, please visit her memorial website at: http://www.gannonfuneralhome.com/, and share your memories on our message board. There you can also follow the link to donate to ANERA (The American Near East Refugee Aid). Other ways to donate include: check made out to ANERA sent to the following Address: ANERA, 1111 fourteenth street, NW , no.400, Washington D.C. 2005 and mentioning in Memory of Leila Bordcosh, or by going to the ANERA website, http://www.anera.org/ and clicking on DONATE and In Memory of Leila Bordcosh, or by or calling ANERA at (202) 266-9700.
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Hassan Al charif posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
My deepest condolences May GOD bless her with her due place in Heaven and rest her soul in peace May GOD bless you all with patience and wisdom to bear with the great loss of her Hasan Charif
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Hiba Husseini posted a condolence
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Dearest Rima, This is really very sad news. I am so very sorry to hear about Leila’s passing. It is indeed untimely and really difficult to learn about. She was so very distinguished, tough and endearing at the same time. May her soul rest in peace and may you and the rest of the family bear her loss with least pain. It won’t be easy, I am sure. I will make sure that she is in my prayers and I will also pray for you and the rest of the family to have patience to endure this loss. Allah Yarhamah. Love, Hiba Hiba I. Husseini, JD Dearest Rima, This is really very sad news. I am so very sorry to hear about Leila’s passing. It is indeed untimely and really difficult to learn about. She was so very distinguished, tough and endearing at the same time. May her soul rest in peace and may you and the rest of the family bear her loss with least pain. It won’t be easy, I am sure. I will make sure that she is in my prayers and I will also pray for you and the rest of the family to have patience to endure this loss. Allah Yarhamah. Love, Hiba Hiba I. Husseini, JD
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Roula posted a condolence
Monday, July 23, 2012
One Thousand and one nights Alf Leila…. wa Leila. One Thousand Leilas… and one Leila. Unique Ground breaker Humble sharp shaker Stern yet forgiving Like orphans we weep for you. A one in a thousand Leilas A one in a million Palestinians A one in a billion women. Leila Costandi Bordcosh She leaves us missing her Idolizing her This quintessential independent career woman Managed to fill her World with the love of Friends, brothers, and sisters And the children of each of her beloved people One thousand and one nights you will be mourned One thousand times you will be remembered and mentioned on one thousand lips. Fairuz haunts my mind: “Arji3ee ya alf layla ghaimat al 3itri Fal hawa yarwi ghaleela min nada al fajr Inna ashwaaqi’ taweela aqsarat 3omri Wa 7akayaki khameela min mada’dahri Arji3i ya alf laila ya alf laila ya alfa laila Ghaimat al’3itri.� Come back one thousand nights, cloud of perfume. Rest in eternal peace our one in a thousand.... Leila.
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Mahmoud & Hind Zeibak posted a condolence
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Leila will always be remembered for her strength of character, for her sense of justice and for her deep sympathy and compassion for the disadvantaged. Most of all, we will always remember her for her sense of humor and her beautiful smile. She will be greatly missed. May she rest in peace.
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Suzanne Prendergast Rudolph posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
I am only writing this now as I have been away from email and phone contact for 3 weeks.
I loved Leila. While we grew apart in later years, she was a wonderful mentor to me. I remember being very anxious about a managerial position I was poised to undertake in France in the summer of 1988. I had no idea what I was about to walk into, and her sage advice steered me through the worst of it. Without her words of encouragement and insight into dealing with people, I'm sure I would have a a rough time. Instead, I had the memory of a supportive conversation to draw on whenever I found myself in unfamiliar waters.
Her humor was infectious, and I loved the way she told a story. The picture she painted for us when she told us about being assigned her own Geisha girl while on a Japanese business trip had me in stitches, and years later, when I was in Kyoto and saw some Geishas walking down the streets in wonderful painted clumps, I thought of her evening as a 'special client' and laughed all over again.
Her success as a business woman was impressive, especially considering the time in which she was excelling. Leila was in a small minority of brilliant and capable women who forged ahead through God-Knows-What kind of prejudice and sexism. She, and the other brave women of her generation who proved that a brain knows no gender made entering the workforce an entirely different experience for us. We should champion her perseverance, and thank her daily for facilitating our working lives.
To one of my mentors I say: Thank you for all you have done, and be at rest.
With much love,
Suzanne
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Nelly Abdelnour Minassian & family posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Dearest Rima, Our sincere condolences on the loss of dear cousin Leila. We will miss her. We admired her great values,determination, enthusiasm, intellect and success. May her memory be everlasting and her soul rest in peace. May God give you the courage and energy to live with your sadness. We love you.
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mounir farsoun posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Leila was a very dear and special freind. We will never forget this lady who was honest , loyal and generous. We were always proud of her Palestinian stands and her love to the cause. My sincere condolences to Rima and the whole family .
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Peter Saghir posted a condolence
Monday, July 16, 2012
I knew Leila through Fifth Avenue Presbyterian Church. She was an inspiring and generous woman. She was so caring and giving to me and my family and I will always remember the evening she invited my wife and me over for a home cooked Middle Eastern meal. The world is truly a better place thanks to Leila.
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Suha Farsoun posted a condolence
Sunday, July 15, 2012
My deepest condolences for your loss. Aunty Leila was a true inspiration and a wonderful and loving person. I am so grateful to have known her my entire life. She was one of my father Joseph Farsoun's closest and dearest friends and she will be terribly missed by us all. May she rest in peace.
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Chantel Hutchison posted a condolence
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Dearest Bordcosh family,
Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of Leila Bordcosh. Leila was an amazing aunt to Lana, Samer and Lulwa, she always did whatever was in her power to see their successes to fruition. I had the privilege of witnessing the organic bond between Rima and Leila, it was very touching to see them care for one another with so much love and kindness. I am truly sorry I cannot be in New York to honor and celebrate Leila's life tomorrow. She was an unforgettable strong woman that will be missed. Sincerely, Chantel
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, July 14, 2012
My Dearest Aunt Leila,
You are the epitome of a strong Palestinian woman. The way you live your life - with unparalleled passion and conviction in your beliefs; reverberates through the minds of our family and friends. Intimidation is obviously not in your vocabulary, as you see no problem climbing the corporate ladder as your male colleagues strain their necks as they stare with astonishment, respect and admiration. Ice water must run through your veins as you always stand up for what is right and fair - apparently you just don't care if the cards are stacked against you. Your generosity to your friends and family is a sure sign that your love is unconditional. Thanks for not passing judgment,and always being straight forward during our intense, and extremely blunt discussions. They always end with a solution, a smile, and the beginning of a Catores game. I don't understand why I keep losing to you. You know Leila, you are a wise and extremely intelligent woman, but what impresses me the most about you -and is probably a big part of your success - is your incredible work ethic. How do you do it? Where do you find the energy & inspiration from? And more importantly, how do you close so many big deals?? I feel blessed to be your nephew, as your influence has allowed me to develop my character with the same amazing qualities that you so gracefully hold. Thanks for everything! Your legacy is Eternal.
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Munzer and Huda Khalidi posted a condolence
Friday, July 13, 2012
Having lunch ,with common friends, at the now defunct fish restaurant, Psaropoulos, by the seashore in Glyfada, Leila sprung to her feet as she saw the late George Papandreou coming into the restaurant. She stopped him as he was walking to his table, introduced herself and smacked a kiss on his cheek as she told him;" Mr. Papandreou, I love you because you love Palesrinians" This is the Leila, Munzer and I,met through mutual friends, in the late seventies. She impressed us with her energy, except on Sundays when she liked to stay close to her bed. She was vocal about her loyalty to her friends and her gratitude to her mentor the late Namiq Idrissi. The people who stepped on her toes were not spared a sharp tongue and she was always vexed, when we first met, at my repeatedly calling her by her sister's name, having gone with Rima to AUB. We were not in constant touch. The last time we saw her was at Dima Farsoun's wedding four years ago. But we will never forget her generosity when we visited New York and her twinkling eyes when she was amused. We consider ourselves lucky to have known Leila and she will always stay in our hearts. To Rima, her nieces and nephew and to her many friends, we send our deepest condolences. Munzer and Huda Allah Yirhamha
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Andree Prendergast Nee Moussa posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Memories started flooding in when I saw the pictures. I am the one in the velvet dress who liked bossing my younger cousins around, as I was a few years older.... Leila and Rima were part of my growing up years we spent some wonderful time together in Beirut. Later on in life Leila visited us in Paris Old Greenwich and Montreal where we lived. Suzanne, our daughter and I visited Leila in Athens where she gave us a wonderful time.
We were very proud of her achievement in the business world and when we met it was never boring, as the conversation was stimulating, interesting and fun.
After she broke her pelvis, life was vey tough for her yet she never complained but was concentrating her energy to get better. I admired her courage and her perseverance.
We have lost a very fine person loved, cherished and respected by many. May God give Rima ,Lana, Samer and Lloula the courage and strength to face the sorrow that they will inevitably feel. Maurice joins me in sending you all our deepest sympathy and love.
Andree
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Raouf Bortcosh posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
My deepest condolences go to Rima, Lana, Samer and Lulwa. I am very proud to have Leila in the Bordcosh family. She was ahead of her time excelling in her achievements and career. Yet she was able to give so much to her colleague's friends and family and found the time to help many in need. Leila is true to her convictions and is not afraid to live by them. She always had a beautiful smile even in hard times. I remember seeing her face to face in California after many years when she helped us escape the civil war in Lebanon. I walked in the room and there she was brightening a room full of people greeting me as if I only seen her yesterday full of life and love.
Rima hats off to you. You stood by your sister and took care of her in her time of need.
Love
Raouf, Fay, Billy and Krystal
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Randa posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
It is with great sadness that our family has lost Leila. I will always cherish how she loved my children and how concerned she was about their success. She was a strong woman who loved her work and was always ready to give a helping hand to someone who needed it, whether they needed a job, a favor, or just some advice. Leila you will be missed.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
As a teenager in Athens, I used to look forward to having lunch or dinner with her during family get togethers as she was so much fun to be with. In any case, I am very saddened by her passing. I received regular updates from Dad and Dima Farsoun after she had entered hospital when she broke her hip. She was always on our mind. You have been a wonderful and caring sister and please know that my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Cyril Malak
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
I am writing again to wish you always happy memories of your life with your dear sister. I have found with experience as the time goes by that a person could even smile when the remembering a sister who left us. Mine left after a long fight with cancer. She left us relatively young. Yet her memory is not always painful. We are lucky to have had them for the time we did.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Our hearts and thoughts are with you. I wish I were in New York to share your sorrow and be there for you during these sad days.
There are no words that summarize what you are passing through. All I can tell you is to pray for her and to ask God to have mercy on her soul.
Leila was a fighter till the last minute despite the pain she suffered but endured. Needless to state that I always enjoyed Leila's company and her challenging conversations and thoughts. She was a very strong, intelligent and smart woman: A woman of substance. May God have mercy on her soul and rest her in heaven. Hugs and lots of kisses. fatmeh
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Very sad to hear the news of the passing away of your beloved sister Leila. Ziad conveyed to me the sad news. May God rest her soul and give you and your family the strength to bear such grave loss.
Please accept my heartfelt sympathies,
Naela
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Dear Rima,
We are very sorry to hear these terrible news and hope that you all will have the patience to endure the pain and loss of Leila. She is all what you mentioned about her and a bit more. No need to recap, but we knew her as a colleague and friend and will keep remembering Leila with her smile and sense of humor.
May she rest in peace .
Sincerely,
Makram & Nelly Musallam
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
We just heard the bad news about your beloved sister Leila ,please accept our deepest condolences and may god rest her soul in peace.I just want to share this with you rima , leila was like a big sister for me ,and my first job with the ACE was with leila she was the manager of the investment department and I was her secretary for two years she tought me a lot and she was really a freind and sister and she pushed me to work in a higher position and as you know i became the president s secetary ,i wont forget leila whole my life god rest her soul .and we will pray for her this is fom sobhi and amal haddad.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Dearest Rima, Lana, Samer & Lulwa,
One is forever short of words when it comes to loosing a dear dear person so close to one's heart. Leila remains one of the most sincere, genuine & honest people I have known. I always looked forward to visiting with her & Rima for she always made sure my favorite "Cream puffs" were there for me. I consider myself very lucky to have her in my life where she will always remain close to my heart.
In memory of our Beloved Leila.
"Love never disappears.
Death is nothing. I am just
in the next room .
I am me, you are you.
What we were for each other,
We will always be.
Give me the name
that you always gave me..
Talk to me as you always did.
Do not use a different tone
Continue to laugh at what made us laugh together.
Pray, smile, think of me.
Pronounce my name at home as usual.
Life means what it has always meant.
It is what it has always been.
The wire is not cut.
Why would I be out of your mind?
simply because I am out of your view?
I shall wait for you;
I am not far away,
just on the other side of the road.
You see, all is well. "
Our sincere condolences to you all.
Much love.
Elsi, Tina & Khalil
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
On behalf of the LAU Alumni family and myself, we are so sad to hear about your loss. Our hearts are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. May your memories bring you comfort, and you find the courage & strength to move forward in peace. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.Sincerely yours,
Dima Ghossaini
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Marie Massello posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
My sincere condolences I was very sad to hear the news about a very sweet colleague.
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Afaf Abunahleh-Harb posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Dear Rima, My deepest condolences on the passing of your beloved sister Leila. May she rest in peace. لها الرØمة ولكم من بعدها طول البقاء. الله يرØمها.
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Nada and Adnan El Abdallah posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Dear Rima, Our heart felt condolences for the untimely loss of a great lady, a dear friend and a loving sister. We are indeed saddened by the shocking news we heard yesterday while we are in Beirut. Our sympathy and support goes to you during this very difficult time. We believe that we all should cherish the legacy Leila has left behind and the good memories shared by all those who knew her. She will be always remembered for her valued contributions to the community at large. God bless her soul. Nada and Adnan
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Denzil Croning (and family) posted a condolence
Monday, July 9, 2012
Leila meant a lot to me as I was growing up in Beirut. She was always first to let me know how proud she was of me, but also first to let me know when I messed up. She was extremely close to my Mom Paulette and was genuinely concerned about her when she had her stroke a few years ago. Even though my Mom will not make sense of it, I will tell her that our family has lost another great person.
Leila, I know you are now with Momo (you gave her that name) and my Teta Marie. Say hi to them for me
Rima, my thoughts are with you
Allah Yirhamha
Love
Denzil, Mandy, Emilie and Martine Croning
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Lulwa posted a condolence
Monday, July 9, 2012
I will miss my aunt Leila with all my heart. I will miss the way the house would always smell of chicken curry and spheha whenever I would arrive, two dishes Leila always made just for me. I will miss the way she always insisted on getting a real Christmas tree because she knew I preferred it over the fake ones, even though it was much more trouble. I will miss the many stories she would tell about my mischievous father and how, because she was the eldest, it was upon her to discipline him. I will miss her one-liners, that although came out of nowhere, were hilarious for hours after the fact. I will miss her stories about Greece, and how while she would tell them I would romanticize about her life there, picturing something glamorous and exotic. I will miss the way she used to call me "lulu," odd as it may be considering I hate whenever anyone else calls me by that. The list goes on and on. Yet even though I will miss many things about my dear Leilati, it is comforting to know that in my grief I have my choice of memories to recollect and comfort me.
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ACE Insurance Athens posted a condolence
Monday, July 9, 2012
On behalf of the staff of ACE Insurance Athens please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your dear sister. The eighties, when ACE was in its heyday, brought together the best and the brightest to Athens. Leila was certainly the most vivacious, we shall never forget her leadership and exemplary devotion to both the profeession and above all the cause to which all of us remain committed to. The shared photo will bring back memories of 1984 at ACE Athens. Manos Ignatiadis & Staff.
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Sami Malak posted a condolence
Monday, July 9, 2012
Dear Rima: I am still in shock after hearing of the demise of my best friend Laila.From an aching heart please accept you, Lana ,Samer and Lulwa, my sincerest condolences. To Juliette and I , Laila was a beloved friend, sincere and caring. We have shared many good times in Athens, England and here. We never seemed to haved escaped living in the same countries. We were on the phone almost every month weher ever we were. Leila was a very close friend. We consulted most of times on family issues but, importantly,on the Palestinian issue and its people who are still rejected and live in camps.Leila was a fighter of the Cause. In her sudden demise she left a big hole in my heart. She will be in my mind and heart forever. Happy sailing Leila.The Devine's mercy on your happy soul. Rima, with tears in my eyes and a choke in my throat, my condolences, again. Sami Malak
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RIMA posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
I will always remember Leila's first achievement: the day she went to school alone. Leila was only four years old, and as such our father escorted her to the bus and asked the driver to keep an eye on her. While on the bus, she lost her lunch and with eyes full of tears she asked the bus driver to help her find it. A quick search of the bus revealed the missing lunch and this incident would go on to be the first of many hurdles and consequent achievements in Leila's life.
When Leila was three years old, she was selected by her teachers to recite an English poem and Arabic hymn on the first Middle Easter radio station, "Ithaat al-Sharq Al-Awsat." In order to reach the microphone, Leila stood on a chair and recited the following: "Julius Ceasar was born in Rome a hundred years before Jesus was born in Palestine," and "Ya Ilahi ,ya Ilahi ya Mujeeba al daawati, Imnah al Youm Saidan wa Kattheera al Barakati." Leila spoke clearly and articulately on that chair that day. Yes Leila since you were a baby you were courageous and proud.
After the naqba, we immigrated to Lebanon where we were enrolled in Broumana High School. Leila was consistently among the first in her class, a feat achieved without even studying. Such trends of achievement continued to adulthood: in 1990, YWCA granted her the National Woman's Achievement Award for placing among the top three percent of successful business women in the United States.
Upon immigrating to the United States, Leila worked as Quality Control Manager for the entire North Eastern region of Sedwick James, an insurance brokerage company. She made great strides to ensure the company was observing ISO insurance standards, and in effect contributed to the company's esteemed reputation. This, however, was not enough for Leila. Convinced that her accent was hindering her advancement within the company, Leila enrolled herself in a speech therapy course to "Americanize" her accent. After several sessions and a hefty fee, the expert advised her that her accent was unique and she should not try to change it. Yes, she was unique.
One day her company wanted to promote her. Yet, before she could receive said promotion, she first had to be assessed by an "Industrial Consultant," i.e. a shrink. She had to fly from New York to Atlanta at 5:00 a.m. and return at six the same day. Leila was ready. After a tough exam and some time, her office was informed that she was ranked in the top 3 percentile of all managers in her field.
When Leila was in the Middle East, she worked for Arab Commercial Enterprises Inc. and was instrumental in closing many fruitful accounts that helped put the corporation on the map.
After establishing herself as a successful business woman, Leila was elected to sit on the board of Lebanese American University (LAU). Her dedication to the liberal arts has improved LAU's humanities' departments.
Leila was a quick thinker. Whenever I was with her I felt a sense of security, always knowing that her resourcefulness would get us out of any potentially problematic situation in which we found ourselves. One summer we decided to travel to Rome, and as most tourists do, we visited The Vatican. I wore a pair of slacks and a blouse. Leila wore a sleeveless shirt and a pair of shorts. They allowed me to enter the Church but not Leila. She told me that I was to go in and she would meet up with me later. I did as I was told, entered the Church without her, and tagged along a guided tour. Wandering the halls of the Vatican, I was so taken with the guide's tour that I didn't even notice that Leila had found her way in. Witty Leila, I saw her standing there with tissue paper dangling from both shoulders of her sleeveless shirt. Yes, she got in and we saw the Vatican together.
And so it has become a sad reality that in Leila's absence all I am left with are these stories. Yet, these stories, hundreds of them together, reveal common threads of her character. They are not stories at all, rather, they are little anecdotes that illustrate her intelligence, her integrity, her honesty, her frankness, her generosity, and her sense of humor. It would take pages and pages to write all of these stories, but only a sentence to reveal what these stories all say: Leila to me is the perfect sister and friend.
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jehan helou posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
The early departure of Leila fills our heart with deep sadness.
Leila was a remarkable intelligent woman who excelled in any job and task she occupied and encountered. However, Leila's life and heart centred on Palestine and on the sufferings and heroic struggle of her people.
I will never forget the nice days we spent together when she came to Palestine after the second Intifada in 2001, to work as a consultant with the World Bank. Leila was courageous and very emotional about her return to Palestine and always joked about people who talk about fear and danger.
Leila will be greatly missed as a sincere and warm friend, and as an ardent and passionate Palestinian.
Jehan Helou
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
May God rest her soul. I was so devastated to hear of her death. We all loved Leyla so much and I will never forget her being my matchmaker. Thanks to her I have a wonderful life with my husband. I will always remember her. Gretta and Ramsey will be staying over so we can all attend the funeral or celebration of her life on july 15.
May God be with you all.
Nayla and Chris Burns
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Dear Rima
I am so so so sad to hear this awful news. I had no idea that leila had broken her pelvis or that had suffered so much. it's so strange to be in the same city and be so out of touch.
I -- we (the Khalidis, the Palestinians and the arab community of New york) will miss her so much. She always attended every talk, every event, and was always so generous. She was smart and sociable and warm hearted, and always high spirited.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
U know how much I cared & loved Leila & I know she was exhausted & could not fight at the end. She needed to rest & may she rest in Peace now. She will always be remembered & in my prayers the same as in the last 6 months.
Though I can't be with you My thoughts are with you.
May God give you courage, patience & faith that she is in a better place today.
To all of you my deepest condolences
Love, Nadia
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Dear Family and Friends;
It is with a heavy heart that I share with you the loss of our very dear Yafawi (Jaffite) friend Leila Bordcosh. Leila has always been a devote Yafawi lady, a defender of Palestinians rights and a passionate ambassador on behalf of Palestinian refugees. Please share my sorrow and condolences and feel free to access the two weblinks below to celebrate Leila's life and donate to ANERA, the charity of her and my choice.
Hasan
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
How tragic to lose your sister (were you twins?) so soon after losing your brother Costandi. May God give them peace and Memory Eternal. You may remember from the AUB days that I was rather tall, and when I think of you and Leila I remember you always together - two faces looking up and beaming with beautiful smiles, life and energy. How sad that one of those faces will now, even for you, only live in memory. I have not met you for some 45 or 50 years and in those years we have all traveled far from our original homes. Leila (and you) achieved so much in her life and did not forget Jaffa where it all started! Please take care of your health and do not let this shock get you down - she would liuke you to go on in the same courageous spirit you described so well in your message about her.
I hope this will provide a little consolation to you and to the Bordosh family:
http://www.ne.jp/asahi/tamari/vladimir/peace-rose.html
Vladimir
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
I do not know what to tell you. ... I remember how proud mu uncle Kaisar was of Leila as a student .... He told me once that she was very sharp and intelligent .... That she was faithfull to her origins .... That tha scholarships that her company sponsored, had to approved by him, for the LAU, how wonderfull this trust that was between them ... What goodness came from the actions of them... No pleading for greatness was asked... No expectation of rewards were sought . .. But quietly as befits her she gave and gave .... Even I that knew her little marveled about her dedication and strength
.... Marveled about her nationalistic dedication for her home .....
Her home ... I will miss walking around como lake with her while talking about the fisheries of tabaria lake....
What can I say more ...
Your friend ziad
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
IT IS WITH SHOCK,SORROW & SADNESS I RECEIVED YOUR ANONOUCEMENT OF THE LOSS OF OUR DEAREST LEILA PREMATURELY.
LEILA'S SOUL IS ALREADY IN HEAVEN,BUT LEILA WILL REMAIN ENGRAVED IN MY HEART AND IN MY MEMORY.
DEAREST RIMA, MY FAMILY AND YOURS GOES BACK A LONG WAY, SINCE THE GOOD DAYS OF OUR WONDERFUL JAFFA.YOUR DAD & MOM WERE VERY GOOD LIFETIME FRIENDS AND I GUESS THAT YOU,LEILA AND I KEPT THE TORCH LIT TILL THE PRESENT.
LEILA WAS ALWAYS AN EXAMPLE OF THE TRUEST AND RAREST OF FRIENDSHIPS,AND WHICH FRIENDSHIP I ALWAYS CHERISHED AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO.
LEILA HELPED ME A LOT DURING MY DAYS WITH ACE AND LATER WITH TEXACO.SHE WAS,IN A WAY ,MY MENTOR.SHE WAS A FRIEND UNIQUE AND
NONPAREIL.AS A BUSINESS WOMEN ,LEILA WAS A PIONEER IN HER FIELD WITH EXCELLENCE NEVER TO BE DUPLICATED BY OTHERS OF HER TIME.
DEAREST RIMA,YOUR MESSAGE ..LAUDING YOUR BELOVED SISTER,REACHED MY HEART TO THE CORE,ONLY A LOVING SISTER LIKE YOU COULD HAVE WRITTEN SUCH AN EULOGY BECAUSE YOU BOTH HAD A WONDERFUL EVERLASTING RELATIONSHIP ,LOVING EACH OTHER DEEPLY IN EVERY DOMAIN ENGULFING YOUR WORLD.
DEAREST RIMA,I KNOW THAT YOU AND OUR BELOVED LEILA WERE INSEPARABLE AND NO ONE CAN REPLACE LEILA,BUT YOU CAN HAVE SOLACE IN KNOWING THAT SHE WAS LOVED MY MANY ESPECIALLY BY MYSELF AND WANT TO ASSURE YOU THAT I DO FEEL YOUR SORROW AND PAIN BY LOSING SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON.
PLEASE ,DEAR RIMA,ACCEPT MY MOST SINCERE AND PROFOUND CONDOLENCES FOR THE LOSS OF OUR BELOVED LEILA AS WELL FROM ALL MY FAMILY.
PLEASE PASS THIS ALSO TO LANA,SAMER AND LULUA.
I PRAY GOD TO GRANT YOU THE COURAGE AND STRENGTH TO OVERCOME YOUR BEREAVEMENT AND GOD ALMIGHTY BLESS YOU AND YOURS WITH GOOD HEALTH AND GOD BLESS LEILA'S SOUL IN HEAVEN.
WE ARE DEFINITELY GOING TO MISS LEILA A LOT BUT WE WILL NEVER FORGET HER.
WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND KISSES TO YOU,DEAREST RIMA AND YOUR NIECES AS WELL.
GUY
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
I will always remember Leila as a very special person. Her ladyship and generosity with me is unforgettable . I stayed with her at Chelsea Cloisters when I went to apply for post graduate studies. She turned the whole event into a memorable lovely one full of fun and joy.
We will always remember our visit to both of you in New York back in 1995.
I do hope Yafa will be liberated in our lifetime to visit your old home and she will be happy.
May she rest in peace and may you get all the patience and endurance to withstand the pain of her absence.
In empathy ,
Love,
Hasna
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Amre and I send our deepest condolences to you and your family for the passing of your beloved sister, Leila. I am happy that I had a chance to meet her again last year at my parents in Toronto. I had such a lovely time listening to her talk and expressing her opinions on world views and such. She was so compassionate, spoke her truth, smart and at ease. We connected on some level on life issues which I found to be a breath of fresh air. Right there, I sensed why she was so successful in living in the arab world and working in a dominant men-only sector of business.
I believe that this will be a challenging time for you as you cared so much for her, loved her and were there for her, not only during her illnesses, but through out your lives together. I truly believe this heavenly connection that you have with her lives on beyond our physical boundaries in this lifetime, but continues in the spiritual realm and for many lifetimes to come. She is there for you now as your support, your guide, your angel....all you have to do is keep acknowledging her and remembering her. Angels love to be remembered and they love to help us, but we need to ask. Now is the time to ask her to help you, guide you and support you through this challenging time and all you have to do is listen and be on the look out for her messages from up above.
In celebration of the wonderful life she led on earth in her physical body....I ask God to open his arms and to embrace you in Love and Light. May her soul rest in Peace.
May the Divine bless you Rima, always and forever.
Peace & Blessings
Rula
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
We are very sorry to hear about the sad loss of your dear sister and our very good friend Leila.
Please accept our most sincere condolences.
Leila was unique in her character and the way she dealt with people and situations. She was above all a true patriot! (but, she would always say that compared to my sister Rima, I am a moderate!)
She had the Mona Lisa smile on her face whenever she confronted people
who had to be put right! She was sincere, very tough, did not cut any corners but, always fair!
Once she took me on the side during a dinner at a mutual friend's house and bluntly told me:
"A3kroot, I never said anything to the Hawas, but if I see you again with a girl, I shall cut your balls!" I was shocked and asked her what she was referring to. She told me that she saw me driving with a young blonde girl next to me in Glyfada a few days earlier but kept quiet about it until she saw me and warned me first. I started laughing and told her that the blonde was my 15 year old niece from Cyprus that was visiting us on holiday! She gave me a big hug smiled and told me that she felt relieved about not having to carry out the sentence!
I also remember the incident when she put Adelaide Bahu in her place when she introduced Leila to someone at a party by saying: "This is Leila Bordcosh, she works for us!" I bet Adelaide regrets her choice of words to this day!
Leila will always be in our hearts!
May God rest her soul in peace!
With all our love,
Miki, Amal and the kids
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
It is with deep sorrow and regret to hear of the passing of Leila. While not enough words can be said to comfort you for your tragic loss, Leila is in a better place now. She joins Malak and many others; she will have company. They are all looking down, proud of us and confident we can continue.
Rima...this is Abdallah writing you on behalf of the Jubran Jubran family. We have fond memories with You and Leila during your visits with Aunty Laurice to sitty Zahia. We all went to Abu Nawwas for the famous Shawarma or to Faisals on Bliss. Those memories will forever stay in our memories.
Abdallah Jubran, on behalf of
Raja and Family, Nadim and family and my wife Doris
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Deeply saddened by the terrible news of the passing away of Leila and touched by the words in your mail . Please accept our most sincere condolences .May her soul rest in eternal peace and may God give you the courage and patience to accept His will. Leila and Elias ( I used to call him " my cousin Lallous" - and always think of him when I drive daily in front of a Mosque he built for Bahwan when he was working in Oman ) left us too soon but will always be remembered.
George and Rita Dabbas
Muscat
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Vivian & Joe Farsoun posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
We lost a best friend and colleague. We met Leila in the late 60's and have know her for almost half a century. We kept our beautiful and close friendship alive all through these years. Our relationship with Leila spanned from being colleagues, friends and neighbors. Leila we are going to miss you so very much! You will always be remembered in our hearts and minds.
We love you very much.
Vivian & Joe Farsoun
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Hasna and Mohammed Mikdashi posted a condolence
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Dear Rima, The passing away of dear Leila is shocking and painful to both of us. We will always remember her roaring jokes, her ladyship , her generosity and great company. I will always cherish her giving of her precious time when I stayed with her at the Chelsea Cloisters London, when I went to apply for post graduate studies. She was not only the big sister but she turned the event into a lovely and full of fun event too. I will never forget our visit to your place in New York too. May she rest in peace. I hope. Yafa will be liberated in our lifetime to fulfill her dreams. In Sympathy, Love, Mohammed and Hasna
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Randa Ashqar posted a condolence
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Leila, Elias and Rima used to always come and visit us with their Mom Auntie Laurice. My Dad was their first cousin and we used to live in Qatar and Kuwait as my Dad was a civil engineer and spend the summers in Beirut. Leila and Rima loved my Dad William.
We used to go to the Sporting beach, that is where Leila taught me how to swim and encouraged me not to be afraid of the water. As the years passed by we settled in Beirut. The civil war broke out and my Dad used to travel for business, he was worried about us and my parents decided to send us to Boston to study at Northeastern University. The Cypriots were not allowing the Lebanese to go without a visa, so my Dad called Leila, as she was living in Athens working for Olayan, if he could send my brother Raouf and I on the ship leaving from Saida to her to go to the US Embassy to get our American Visas and proceed to Boston to go to University.
We arrived after three and a half days at sea, Leila came to pick us up at Pireas Port in Athens and sent us the next day with the chauffeur to get our luggage as it was an ordeal when we arrived; as the authorities had not allowed the passengers to leave the ship with the luggage. She helped us to get our visas, she took us around and was very loving and hospitable. She made our experience more tolerable as we were tired, exhausted from the trip and worried for our parents who stayed in Lebanon with the bombing and unsettled internal situation.
Leila had a big heart, she was a shrewd business woman, genuine, there was no nonsense with her. She was dedicated to the Palestinian cause and was informed and knew her facts.
We have only kept contact sporadically through the years, once in while when she came to Montreal to visit. The last time I saw her was when my daughter and I visited her in New York in 1999. I had taken Kristina on a girl's trip to New York and had a chance to see Leila.
Leila will be sorely missed, I am thinking of her and remembering the wonderful memories.
May you rest in peace Leila.
With love,
Randa
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Samira Meghdessian posted a condolence
Saturday, July 7, 2012
I got to know Leila in New York City every time I went there to visit Rima. Rima and I are old friends and Leila always shared in our conversations. I always stayed with them, sleeping on the living room sofa and sharing many a meal at their table - eating Leila's famous Leg of Lamb or just going to the neighborhood Greek restaurant for fish.
Over the years and through all the frank exchanges we had over a good game of cards, we broached many subjects, mainly political. As all Palestinians, we three never tired of analyzing this ongoing conflict. Leila was always brilliant in her analysis and expressed her opinions objectively - never raising her voice nor getting excited.
I will never forget that day during the Lebanese civil war in the 70s, when she braved one of the darkest nights of that war to come to the airport to meet Rima and me who were returning to Beirut from Geneva.
She exhibited that night fantastic courage.
She was instrumental in encouraging me to go back and visit Palestine. She had spent some time there on a project and spoke very fondly of it.
I will remember her generosity, her enthusiasm, zeal and loyalty to her friends and to the Palestinian cause. Rest in peace, Leila. I enjoyed knowing you a lot. I will continue to call Rima...
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Hasan A Hammami posted a condolence
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Leila and I had a large number of conversations over a few years. We come from the same city, Jaffa (Yafa), when it was part of the country it had been for millennia, Palestine. We met each other in our diaspora, the diaspora of our lives but not of our hearts: we were and will continue to be Yafawis who are passionate about their history, their rights, their culture, their past, present and future. Leila was the epitome of a tough professional woman who did not have any time for weak or unanchored people. She was frail of body but steely of mind, will and principles.
She was my conscience when I wavered on the basic principles, legal and human rights of our people. She was my strong supporter when I demanded a lot of myself and the best for our people. She had a keen sense of humor, a sharp eye for truth and a fervent passion for justice. She also had no patience for flaws of character, fuzziness of vision or weakness of will, all of which she tried to correct with eloquence and clarity.
Her absence will cast a wide shadow and she will be missed.
Go with God, my friend Leila,
Your Yafawi friend Hasan Hammami
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Teddy & Diana Abdo posted a condolence
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Our friendship with Leila dated back to the sixties in Beirut and later on in Athens after 1976 when many companies relocated to Greece after the civil war in Lebanon. Our friendship continued even though we relocated to different parts of the world. During the past few years we saw more of Leila as she visited her sister Rima in Toronto. She was a very dear and special friend to us. We always admired Leila for her professional excellence in the field of insurance where she rose to the highest levels in her organization and was an authority in her field. We always enjoyed our many social get-together and her light spirit and sense of humour. She was indeed a remarkable person and will certainly be missed. Our heartfelt condolences go to her sister Rima and her nephew and nieces. May God grant you the strength and courage to face your bereavement. May her good soul rest in eternal peace with our Lord and may her memory be everlasting. Allah yirhamha.
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Randa Ashqar posted a condolence
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Dearest Rima, Lana, Samer and Lulwa, Our deepest condolences on the passing of your beloved Leila. May she rest in peace. You will always treasure her memory. She was a wonderful lady, smart, innovative and dedicated to the cause. She will be fondly remembered. Sincerely, Paul and Randa Ashqar
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Hasan A Hammami posted a condolence
Saturday, July 7, 2012
To Leila's family and friends, Leila's passing has just hit me. I shall miss our conversations about Yafa, our people, our rights, our history and our culture. Leila has left an indelible mark in my heart, one that came out of the blue, as we both met through common Yafawi friends in exile on the internet. Yet we cemented our Yafawi links through many conversations and exchanges of ideas and stories. It turned out we had many more friends in common that we imagined. This is the reality of Palestinians in exile, never far from one another. Leila will be forever the epitome of the human rights defender, the protector of the weak and the big little sister of many Palestinians. Go with God my friend and Rest In Peace. Your Yafawi friend, Hasan Hammami
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